Are you holding yourself back? Are you stalling? Do you have a feeling deep in your gut that your life could be better? What's in your way? What's really in your way? What have you been telling yourself is in the way as an excuse for not reaching for a better feeling place? Over the years I have done readings for so many people from so many different walks of life. We all have the same issue. We all seem to begin by searching for something external from us. We think the right job/relationship/weight will give us the feeling that we are seeking when infact we kind of have it backwards. You can truly achieve the feeling of greatness way before anything physically moves in or out of your life. You can feel peaceful, in love, empowered before all of the things you have been taught will bring you that show up. This is part of what I mean when I say that we need to work on our lives from the inside out. Your emotions are not solely governed by external circumstances. They are governed by the choices you make on whether to indulge them or not. As dark as your life can look you can choose to see it from a different perspective. You can choose to look at the best parts of that experience. You can choose to actively create your own emotional landscape irrespective of the life you are living.
The things is. The second you begin to take control over your own emotional landscape it generates a massive ripple effect in your life. You will begin to viscerally attract new circumstances and opportunities into your life. The late Wayne Dyer said it best when he wrote, “When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.” which includes the way you feel about them too. Your emotions are not subject to external circumstances. You choose and you do it every day. You may not be able to leap from the abstract depths of despair to absolute ecstasy in a minute but you can choose to reach for the nearest best feeling. You can choose to physically do something that will make you feel better. You can reach for relief. You can step out of your own darkness and into your own light. You can choose to be hurt or to heal. You can choose to keep reacting to a pain from your past or you can choose to forgive it and let it go. That is now and always will be on you.
There are two kinds of reactions to this information. One is relief, that you finally have the knowledge that you rlife is changeable. The other is anger and you will seek to defend your place and identity as a perpetual victim of the fates. Which one is more you? Which one do you want to be? Are you acting like a leader in one area of your life but like a victim in another? Are you willing to hear that your life can change when it comes to your work but not your relationship or vice versa? Your inner life is your own. The thoughts and feeling you indulge are all part and parcel of the energy you choose to invest in. You choose your thoughts and feelings, not the other way round. When you make a change to you then your life can't do anything other than follow. Take a stand today. Stand in the truth of who you are. You are built of love and in it's name so choose to show that to yourself. Then when you are ready, show that to the world.
Thank you,
Big Love,
Ryan James x